Attracting a worthy partner (mate)

worthiness – attracting worthy partners

It’s about knowing what you want. If you know the type of guy/girl you want, and how she/he will treat you. Then when you start dating a guy/girl and she/he shows signs that she/he isn't it, move on. Don't try to change them don't think it will get better. If his/her character isn't what you’ve been seeking it won't be it.
The problem most women/men make is they think they have to have a good man/woman in order to know what one is like. Truth if you don't make your character equal or better to the character of that good man/woman the odds of that working is minimal. One most make themselves worthy of the type of people they want in their life. This goes for friends too.
Worthiness : the quality or state of having merit or value
So ask yourself do you meet that?
If you are looking for a "good man/woman" do you have the things she/he would value.
I don't mind being mean. This isn't rocket science. The truth most people want things but aren't willing to be worthy of them. Women want men that will treat them like they’re the only one, like they are worth of everything. Yet they lie, or act desperate, or something else. If you really want to be treated like "gold" then you have a character equivalent to it.
In other words get some mental and emotional discipline, use some will power and do the right thing because it's right. I'm not talking about "I pay my own bills," or "I take care of my own." Whatever, this is about character.
Ask yourself one simple question. "If my character is so good why do I attract, and attach myself to men, of low character?"
If my mother taught me anything well, it's this.
"LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!"
I add
"LIKE STAYS WITH LIKE!"
Opposites don't attract. When couples fight that is when their opposites are in opposition (fighting). When not fighting is when they are on equal wavelength (when the like is in harmony).
So the thing to do is, take those entire characteristics you want in your man/woman, and have them in yourself.
Other words:
If you have low self esteem.
Expect the people you attract to have low self esteem.
If you are co-dependent.
Expect to attract someone that takes advantage of you cause they have dependency issues too.
Look around people this is a duh. The traits show themselves different but the principles will be the same.
LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!
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